To You... My dear friend

Aight my friend, it's like this:
I'm not here to judge you for what you do, nor even to tell you what you should or shouldn't do...cuz you know what you do and do not want... or at least you should know... ;)
What I'm gon' write on here is gonna make you think about some stuff... that's the whole point of this... But it's not meant to hurt you or make you feel guilty of anything. I just want you to read this and think about it and then you can keep this in mind, if you want.

- Think of all the bad moments you had in your life... Think also about the people who were part of those bad moments... It's hard, ain't it?

-- Now, take those bad moments and divide them in 2 parts:
*The ones that were initially good or started from good stuff and turned bad after a while;
*And the ones that were just bad from the start
The ones that were initially good or started from good stuff are way harder to get over, right?! I wonder why... Like they say, "Hell is full of good intentions"...

--- Now take those bad moments that started from good stuff and divide those in 2 parts:
*The ones that you put other people through and that you felt bad about (sooner or later);
*And the ones that other people put you through and that made you feel really bad.

You see where I'm tryin to go here? Now keep thinkin about that... Deep inside, in which of those moments did you feel worse?! Think it through before you get an answer (and don't forget that answer! Keep it in mind)

Aight, enough of bad thoughts!! Let's go to the good stuff!! =)
-Think of all the good moments you had so far... And in the people who were part of them... ;)
--Now think only about the good moments, the ones that were started from something bad that you did, but then turned into what you most wished for... Remember the happiness you reached from those transformations and how happy you really were...

What's my point with all this?... Everybody makes mistakes. Mistakes that hurt other people, mistakes that are bad to other people, even when our intentions are the best one, really bad mistakes sometimes... Cuz nobody's perfect. That's why I think everybody deserves another chance. As hard as it may sound. I know I had that 2nd chance... you prolly had that 2nd chance... And I remember how it feels! You feel an inner glow like you never had before... Even though you put that other person through such pain... why? Cuz love is all that matters... and when I mean love, I don't say love just as in boyfriend-girlfriend, husband -wife love, I'm talkin about Friendly love, Family love... all your loved ones that once hurt you or that you once hurt. Think of how you could make someone have an inner glow so bright, like the one someone made you have one day... Think of how you'd make someone so happy like someone has made you one day... So happy... and full of love! And how did that someone made you so happy once?... By giving you another chance to make right whatever you did wrong... giving you another chance to at least TRY to do the right thing... And if even with that other chance things didn't work out like you thought they would... Then you can really say "I did everything I could to make it right" and then you don't have to think "What if...?", "Would it have worked out...?", "Would I/he/she be really happy?"... And with that you can't regret or suffer anymore, because you fought till the end for what you really wanted and what you believed in and thought was possible! I guess y'all know what I think... "You regret more what you don't do... than of what you do"... The worse thing that can be is doubt... "what if?.." Don't get me wrong, don't misunderstand me, PLEASE! I'm not sayin this to be annoying, or cuz someone asked me... I'm just saying this to you, my friend, cuz I really worry about you and wanted to leave you with a piece of advice... because YOU are really important to me! You have no idea, but you are! I'm not tryin to tell you what to do either. I'm really not! All I want is to see y'all happy, with whoever, however, whenever... I just don't want you to live with doubt, and always thinkin about "What if?..." or "Would I be happy...?" and thinkin about how it would've been if you gave another chance, if you had another chance, if you took that other chance, if the other chance you gave was taken... Just live 100% the present, always lookin forward. Look back, but be sure there was no doubt in any of the moments you went through. Life is made of choices... You make good ones or bad ones... But you can't keep on wonderin about them. All I want is the best for you guys, cuz you deserve that! I don't ever wanna see you hurting. I'm the last person who wants to see you hurting. But I know that no one likes to see their loved ones hurting... Cuz... everybody deserves at least a 2nd chance... Just think about this... You're my friend and I love you. I want you to be always happy. You can keep this message. Hell, I was so inspired writing this that I'll keep it myself! =p It may be useful to me too... someday... you never know... What I wrote is what I feel! I wish you could see that, but I hope I don't have to prove it to you! Because all the good things I want for me, I definitely want it doubled for you! And be sure to know this!! I'm here for you, forever and for always!
PEACE OUT!